Creating a happy and harmonious relationship is the desire of many women. Achieving this… It isn’t always easy… Living together becomes a daily challenge and women must be prepared to overcome all these challenges firmly. But we often don’t realize that we are committing some deadly sins that kill your relationship.
If you want a long-lasting, happy and safe relationship, check here for some mistakes that you should avoid:
Gluttony is an insatiable desire.
Always want more without being happy with what you already have. In the relationship when you are never satisfied with what your partner does, it will lead him to withdraw more and more from you. You chose that amazing companion to share your life with, so relieve your greed about him. Rejoice and praise him a lot for the things he does, leave criticism aside.
Example: The partner at his best will help you with the cleaning and you are constantly telling him that the dust doesn’t get cleaned like this, that he sucked badly or that he doesn’t know how to squeeze the mop… Oh please, change the chip, the dust was really clean, and the floor was super shiny. Believe that he will enjoy listening and be more available to help you next time.
Avarice is the attachment to material goods and money.
Couples’ biggest arguments are about money. This is the second leading cause of divorce in the world. It is important that couples establish goals, common objectives in order to manage finances in the best way. When one starts to spend, just because the other bought something that he did not tell him, a dispute begins to exist as if the couple were an opponent. In the relationship, the two have to form a team, with a good strategy to win every day.
Lust attached to carnal pleasures, to sexuality.
Here when the partner is always wanting to have sex and the woman is always saying she doesn’t want… There is a great imbalance. Understand why you WOMAN, don’t want to have sex and talk to your partner, in a conscious conversation, to reach an understanding.
Ire is related to a great feeling of anger, hatred, resentment that sometimes can even generate a feeling of revenge.
Relationship with ire makes people angry, out of control, and without love. The heart is only love, if you put something else in it it becomes unbalanced. The relationship is love, understanding, dedication, friendship. Realize what corrodes you and release that anger. Plant seeds of love in your heart, help not to kill your relationship.
Envy reveals itself when we ignore our own blessings and give priority to what a partner is or what other women are.
Constantly envying others takes away self-esteem, self-love, the ability to love ourselves and our partner. If you want a lasting relationship, take care of your BEING.
Laziness is when we neglect ourselves as women in the relationship.
Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you have to leave the sensual woman you are. Men like their women well cared for, arranged, smelling. Take care of yourself, and do not kill your relationship.
Pride is associated with arrogance, excessive pride and vanity.
To think that you are always right, that your opinion has to prevail and what you do is that you are right, maybe ruining your relationship. The relationship for two must be balanced, we must recognize when we made mistakes, assume this and have the humility to accept the other. In their relationship, their views are very important.
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Written by: Cláudia Lopes
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